Dear Dr. Laurie:

Everything my boyfriend does makes me sad. I'm sick of it. Argh! Help! - Anonymous in Mill Valley

Dear Anonymous: You make yourself sad. Commit to making yourself happy and your actions will follow your commitment. If you commit to making yourself happy you will either turn your focus to all the things your boyfriend does that delight you or you will turn your focus to a new boyfriend. - Dr. Laurie

Dear Dr. Laurie:

I have always had a desire to run wild and date a lot of different people. I am single now after an eight year marriage and want to do this. Part of me feels it is wrong. What do you think? - Randy in Mountain View

Dear Randy:

Enjoy yourself. Be honest with anyone you date regarding your intentions and have fun. If you are going to have sex practice SAFE sex. Be honest with yourself about the emotions this life style brings up. If you are dating a lot of people you will have a lot of emotions and so will they. Some will clash. Others will blend.. Don't avoid any of the emotions with drugs or alcohol. If you are drawn to use sex as a pathway back to god, or your heart, or your body, or your freedom give it a try. Just say alert to yourself and all will be well. Things won't be simple. They won't always feel comfortable. With honesty and safety, however, you will learn a lot. - Dr. Laurie:

Dear Dr. Laurie: I heard that men can get penis enlargements. Do you have an opinion about this? - Anonymous Guy in Omaha

Dear Anonymous Guy: When the neighborhood boys told you that women like large penises best they were misinformed. Women come in all shapes and sizes just like men. Consequently, a woman will have the best fit with a penis that works well with her body size.

Some women feel amazing when they have a long penis inside of them, Women who are shorter inside get bumped on the cervix by a long penis. To imagine what being bumped on the cervix feels like, remember a time when you got bumped in the balls.

Some women love a penis with a wide circumference because of the friction. Other women who are smaller inside get burned and scratched by a wide penis. You can use your imagination to extend the examples of good fits and bad fits I have mentioned.

Don't get a penis enlargement. Your body is precious and so is your penis. You need to get complements and feedback that will boost your relationship with your penis , not a new penis! Talk to women. Get a reality check.

All the best, Dr. Laurie

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